How Speed Dating Works
Speed dating is one of the fastest, easiest and most enjoyable ways to meet new people in London.
But at Cocktails & Conversation, the experience is even smoother: no name badges, no scorecards and no awkward admin.
Everything is handled through our app, where each guest has a profile, matches are processed automatically and you can chat safely afterwards without exchanging numbers.
If you already know you’d like to take part,
view upcoming Cocktails & Conversation speed dating events here.
What Makes Cocktails & Conversation Speed Dating Different?
Traditional speed dating can feel outdated — pens, paper scorecards, name badges and manual matching.
We’ve modernised the entire experience to make it seamless, stylish and stress-free.
- No name badges: You meet people naturally, the way you would in real life.
- No awkward scorecards: Selections are made discreetly in the app.
- Profile-based matching: Every guest has an in-app profile with photo and details.
- No number swapping required: You chat inside the app until you’re comfortable.
- Instant results: Matches appear in your app shortly after the event.
This makes Cocktails & Conversation one of the most modern speed dating experiences in London.
How Speed Dating Works (Step-by-Step)
1. Arrive and Check In Through the App
When you arrive, our hosting team checks you in digitally.
Your app automatically activates the event mode, showing you the lineup for the night and your own profile. Download The App
2. Get Comfortable — No Name Badges Needed
We don’t use name badges because conversations flow more naturally without them.
Plus asking someone their name is the natural first question.
3. Mini-Dates Begin
Each round lasts around 3–5 minutes — enough to get a sense of personality and spark.
Women are usually seated while men rotate, with our hosts guiding the flow of the room.
4. Mark Your Interest in the App
After each mini-date you can put a heart on the person you just met if you’d like to see them again.
The other person gets a notification that you are interested which nudges them to be keen as well.
5. Matches Process Automatically
Once the event ends, the app does everything for you.
If both people say “Yes,” you see each other instantly inside the app.
6. Chat in the App — No Numbers Needed
This is one of the biggest advantages.
You can message your matches inside the app, so you don’t have to exchange phone numbers until you’re comfortable.
It keeps things safe, private and relaxed.
Want to explore the broader event type?
Read our Speed Dating London guide here.
Why This App-Based System Works Better
- More natural conversations: No badges or labels interrupting the flow.
- More privacy: No pressure to share personal details too early.
- More accurate matching: The app removes human error.
- More comfort for women: They can message safely without giving out their number.
- More confidence for men: The whole system feels cleaner and smoother.
What to Expect at a Cocktails & Conversation Speed Dating Event
Every event is hosted in a beautiful London venue with a friendly, warm atmosphere.
Our guests tend to be sociable professionals in their late 20s to 40s who prefer meeting people face-t
o-face rather than relying on dating apps.
- High-end venues across Mayfair, Shoreditch and Central London
- A curated, open-minded crowd
- Balanced ratios wherever possible
- Friendly hosting team guiding introductions
- Seamless digital matching through the app
You don’t need confidence or experience — just an open mind and willingness to talk.
Want to compare different types of events?
See our Dating Events in London guide.
Tips for Getting the Best Results
- Arrive early: It helps you relax and settle in.
- Dress well: Aim for confident, date-night energy.
- Ask real questions: Not rehearsed lines — just curiosity.
- Stay open: Chemistry can surprise you.
- Use the app: It’s designed to help you match smoothly.
FAQs
Do I need to come alone?
Most people come solo — it’s normal, and our hosts make it easy.
Will everyone see who I picked?
No. Your choices are private. Only mutual matches appear.
Do I need to exchange numbers?
Not at all. You can chat inside the app until you’re comfortable.
Is this better than traditional speed dating?
Yes — no paper, no admin, no awkwardness. Everything is done digitally.
Is speed dating better than apps?
For many people, absolutely. You meet real people instantly instead of waiting weeks for replies.
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Ready to Try Speed Dating?
If you’re ready to meet new people in a warm, modern and effortless way, speed dating is one of the best options in London.
With our app-based matching and beautiful venues, you’ll enjoy a smooth, stress-free night designed for real chemistry.
View upcoming Cocktails & Conversation speed dating events here.
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