London's Most Stylish Dating Events. Singles Mixers & Speed Dating Nights

Meet likeminded singles at premium venues across London. Book upcoming events or join as a member for free entry and guaranteed access

Cocktails & Conversation hosts London’s leading dating events, singles mixers and modern speed dating nights. Each event brings together a great crowd in stunning venues — with balanced ratios, an easy social atmosphere and premium hosting.

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Skyline City Mixer – Canary Wharf – Friday 5th December

We’re excited to invite our members and guests to Qibo Sky Bar, a brand-new rooftop destination set high above Canary Wharf on the 20th floor of The Dosset Hotel. Opening at the end of November, this sleek new venue offers panoramic views across London’s glittering financial district — and we’ll be among the very first to experience it.

Exclusive Dinner at The Aubrey – Mandarin Oriental – Knightsbridge – Sat 6th December

Join an intimate evening at The Aubrey, the opulent Japanese izakaya at the Mandarin Oriental. This exclusive dining experience brings together 20 guests for a night of great food, engaging conversation, and new connections in one of London’s most luxurious settings.

Cocktails & Conversation at The Mandarin Oriental- Sat 6th December

Join us for an elegant evening of sophistication and charm at the illustrious Mandarin Oriental, five star hotel’s opulent bar, The Aubrey.

Christmas Speed Dating & Mixer – 12th December – Age 30-49 – Paddington

Join us for a festive evening of connection as Cocktails & Conversation brings together 100 singles for a Christmas social. Set inside a beautiful, stylish venue in Paddington, this event offers the perfect backdrop for meeting new people just in time for the holidays.

Christmas Mixer & after party in Mayfair Members Club – Dear Darling – Sat 13th Dec

Set in a private members club in the heart of Mayfair, Dear Darling is a stylish Mayfair’s VIP night club and we are excited to be exploring this lavish venue while mixing and mingling in exclusive settings. Designed with a provocative theme and performers to entertain the late night guests.

Festive City Speed Dating & Mixer – Hyatt Regency Blackfriers – 19th December – Age 26-40

Join us for an exclusive festive evening at Leaf & Cane, the glamorous Latin-inspired cocktail bar tucked beneath the iconic 5* Hyatt Regency Blackfriars. A favourite among the City’s finance crowd, this atmospheric hideaway blends opulence with warmth—lush décor, intimate lighting, and a vibrant energy that makes it the perfect backdrop for a night of social connection.

Festive Skyline Cocktail Party – Solaya – Sat 20th December

Celebrate the festive season in style with 100 of our members and guests at Solaya London, the brand-new 24th-floor sky bar at the chic art’otel Hoxton. With incredible panoramic views across London, sleek interiors and an elevated, festive atmosphere, this is the perfect setting for our final Cocktails & Conversation social before Christmas.

NYE Black Tie Masquerade Ball – 31st December

Step into 2026 in spectacular style at the Leonardo Royal Hotel Rooftop, an extraordinary space overlooking the iconic dome of St Paul’s Cathedral. For one unforgettable night, this stunning rooftop venue – will be transformed into a dramatic ballroom reserved exclusively for Cocktails & Conversation.

With 250 elegant guests, black-tie glamour and mysterious masks, this is New Year’s Eve at its most refined and atmospheric.

Coffee & Conversation – New Years Walk – St James – Sat 3rd January

Start your New Year’s intentions the right way — with fresh air, good company, and a gentle morning stroll through one of London’s most picturesque royal parks.

We’re inviting 30 outdoorsy guests to join us for a calming winter walk around St James’s Park in Mayfair. It’s the perfect opportunity to ease into 2026 with like-minded people, beautiful scenery, and relaxed conversation.

7 Deadly Sins Valentine’s Ball – Friday 13th Feb 2026 – Dartmouth House – Mayfair

This Valentine’s weekend we invite you to join in mischief and mirth. Luxuriate in a luscious atmosphere and dance the night away as we celebrate love, romance and desire.

Escape the mundane and lose yourself in a decadent and elaborate ball, dance with your eyes closed and indulge in the exotic as we put on a show that encapsulates the 7 deadly sins.

Frequently Asked Questions

Are your London dating events safe?

Yes. All Cocktails & Conversation events are hosted by trained staff, guest lists are checked at the door, and every event follows strict behaviour and conduct guidelines to ensure a safe, respectful environment.

Do your events sell out?

Most events, especially central London venues and weekend mixers, sell out days or weeks in advance. Members also receive guaranteed access when events reach capacity.

Do I have to attend alone?

Yes — and most guests do. Our mixers, dinners and speed dating formats are designed so everyone feels comfortable arriving solo. You’ll meet people immediately, and no one feels out of place.

What’s the usual age range?

Most Cocktails & Conversation events attract guests in their late 20s to late 40s, although some events include specific age ranges. Event pages clearly show the demographic.

How does matching work?

We don’t use outdated name badges or paper scorecards. Our app allows you to view guest profiles before the event, match privately afterwards and chat without sharing your number until you’re ready.

What should I wear?

Our events lean towards smart, stylish and cocktail-luxe. Guests dress well — think elevated social nightlife rather than casual bar wear.

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