London's Most Stylish Dating Events. Singles Mixers & Speed Dating Nights

Meet likeminded singles at premium venues across London. Book upcoming events or join as a member for free entry and guaranteed access

Cocktails & Conversation hosts London’s leading dating events, singles mixers and modern speed dating nights. Each event brings together a great crowd in stunning venues — with balanced ratios, an easy social atmosphere and premium hosting.

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Festive City Speed Dating & Mixer – Hyatt Regency Blackfriers – 19th December – Age 26-44

Join us for an exclusive festive evening at Leaf & Cane, the glamorous Latin-inspired cocktail bar tucked beneath the iconic 5* Hyatt Regency Blackfriars. A favourite among the City’s finance crowd, this atmospheric hideaway blends opulence with warmth—lush décor, intimate lighting, and a vibrant energy that makes it the perfect backdrop for a night of social connection.

Festive Skyline Cocktail Party – Solaya – Sat 20th December

Celebrate the festive season in style with 100 of our members and guests at Solaya London, the brand-new 24th-floor sky bar at the chic art’otel Hoxton. With incredible panoramic views across London, sleek interiors and an elevated, festive atmosphere, this is the perfect setting for our final Cocktails & Conversation social before Christmas.

NYE Black Tie Masquerade Ball – 31st December

Step into 2026 in spectacular style at the Leonardo Royal Hotel Rooftop, an extraordinary space overlooking the iconic dome of St Paul’s Cathedral. For one unforgettable night, this stunning rooftop venue – will be transformed into a dramatic ballroom reserved exclusively for Cocktails & Conversation.

With 250 elegant guests, black-tie glamour and mysterious masks, this is New Year’s Eve at its most refined and atmospheric.

Coffee & Conversation – New Years Walk – St James – Sat 3rd January

Start your New Year’s intentions the right way — with fresh air, good company, and a gentle morning stroll through one of London’s most picturesque royal parks.

We’re inviting 30 outdoorsy guests to join us for a calming winter walk around St James’s Park in Mayfair. It’s the perfect opportunity to ease into 2026 with like-minded people, beautiful scenery, and relaxed conversation.

Speed Dating & Mixer at The Arding Room – Clapham – Fri 9th Jan – Age 30+

Start the new year with new beginnings, join an exclusive January night out at a brand new private members’ club in Clapham junction.

Meet 50 elegant singles with a fun evening of speed dating and connection. After the speed dating enjoy getting to know your favorite person on a deeper lever over cocktails.

Cocktail Party at The Four Seasons – Park Lane – Sat 10th January – (All Ages)

We’re welcoming 80 of our most stylish guests for a sophisticated soirée where conversations glide, connections spark without effort, and everyone arrives dressed to impress, at the iconic Four Seasons, Park Lane, inside the beautifully curated Pavyllon Bar — one of London’s most prestigious spaces for a night of effortless glamour.

Cocktails & Conversation at The Conduit Club – Fri 16th January (age 27-44)

The event is hosted in partnership with Conduit Club, a renowned members’ club with a focus on sustainability and purpose-driven business. Their own members will also be joining the mixer, offering a unique opportunity to engage in meaningful conversations with interesting and influential individuals.

Saturday Night Mixer at Mr Porter – Park Lane – Sat 17th January

Join 100 guests at Mr Porter, Park Lane. Behind its unassuming copper door lies a world of culinary decadence and contemporary design — a subterranean hideaway where mirror-polished surfaces, velvet textures and golden light create an atmosphere that is both intimate and electrifying

Exclusive Dinner at The Aubrey – Mandarin Oriental – Knightsbridge – Fri 23rd Jan

Join an intimate evening at The Aubrey, the opulent Japanese izakaya at the Mandarin Oriental. This exclusive dining experience brings together 20 guests for a night of great food, engaging conversation, and new connections in one of London’s most luxurious settings.

Cocktails & Conversation at The Mandarin Oriental- Fri 23rd Jan

Join us for an elegant evening of sophistication and charm at the illustrious Mandarin Oriental, five star hotel’s opulent bar, The Aubrey.

Frequently Asked Questions

Are your London dating events safe?

Yes. All Cocktails & Conversation events are hosted by trained staff, guest lists are checked at the door, and every event follows strict behaviour and conduct guidelines to ensure a safe, respectful environment.

Do your events sell out?

Most events, especially central London venues and weekend mixers, sell out days or weeks in advance. Members also receive guaranteed access when events reach capacity.

Can I attend alone?

Yes, many guests attend alone. Our mixers, dinners and speed dating formats are designed so everyone feels comfortable arriving solo or with friends. You’ll meet people immediately, and no one feels out of place.

What’s the usual age range?

Most Cocktails & Conversation events attract guests in their late 20s to late 40s, although some events include specific age ranges. Event pages clearly show the demographic.

How does matching work?

We don’t use outdated name badges or paper scorecards. Our app allows you to view guest profiles before the event, match privately afterwards and chat without sharing your number until you’re ready.

What should I wear?

Our events lean towards smart, stylish and cocktail-luxe. Guests dress well — think elevated social nightlife rather than casual bar wear.

What if I buy a ticket and can’t make it?

We have a self-service portal where you can cancel your ticket and issue a credit note upto 48h pre-event: Ticket Tailor – Find your tickets

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