Gemini’s are air signs (like Libra & Aquarius), born between May 22 and June 22. Gemini men are notoriously hard to pin down into a relationship, due to their insatiable lust for life and new challenges. Let’s get into how to date a Gemini Man.

Gemini’s are the super-flirts of the zodiac and can chat up anyone, anywhere. They never run out of news, info, gossip and charm, and they are ruled by Mercury – the planet of communication

Their Peter Pan-like attitude and party-hard persona, make them fun to be around and often have a wide circle of friends they flit between. This can make them seem a little fickle and present a challenge to hold their interest. But if you’d got your sights firmly set on a Gemini man, we’ve got some tips that could help you understand him better and make things go more smoothly.

Key things to know about a Gemini Man

• He is spontaneous, got a last min invitation, he’s your man
• Loves adventure
• Talking is his love language
• Gets bored easily

How to impress him

Since he loves spontaneity and adventure, surprise him with dates that are outside the ordinary, try activity dates like rock climbing or a VR experience. Anything that feels like an adventure and out of the ordinary will definitely get him excited. If you’ve got dinner plans, pick somewhere that is new and exciting or cuisine from a culture he’s never tried before. And don’t be afraid to have tantalizing conversations, Gemini loves gossip. If you’ve got the tea on anything from work drama to current affairs, Gemini’s love to hear it.

What not to do when dating a Gemini Man

As an air sign, Gemini’s hate feeling pinned down and will bolt at the first sign of pressure. They need plenty of alone time, so don’t get stressed if they disappear for short spells, they will be back, more keen than before if you allow them their space. Also don’t get too emotional too sooner become clingy, treat them mean, keep them keen has never been truer than with a Gemini. They are so keen to entertain and impress, if you seem less than enthralled by them they will work harder to get you on their hook. Don’t shower them with praise and attention, keep them guessing to keep their interest.

In the Bedroom

Gemini’s are one of the kinkest star signs, the most likely to be interested in threesomes and watching you receive pleasure (think mirrors and masturbation). Keep a Gemini man interested by changing things up regularly, find sexy date night ideas to enthrall him and send him sexy text messages while he’s at work to spice up his day. You can step into your alter ego and try role play to rouse his duality and explore his love of variety. Just remember not to be too predictable with a Gemini man as they have short attention spans and can lose interest as faster than Lewis Hamilton gets around the track.

Best Matches for Gemini Men

It’s not surprisingly Geminis get along best with fellow air signs: Libras and Aquarians.
These two signs are also free spirits who don’t mind easing slowly into a relationship, giving a Gemini time to get use to the idea without feeling pressured or suffocated.

Geminis are also not afraid to branch out and get to know spunky fire signs, a.k.a Sagittarius, Leos, and Aries.
These signs are inventive and, like Gemini, they’re big thinkers. Geminis especially appreciate that these signs aren’t so detail-oriented, like Virgos, nor are they super-emotional like Pisces tend to be, which can be a big turnoff for a Gemini.